I was having dinner with a friend the other night when he pulled out his phone to show me a New York-based life coach on Instagram. He’s 27, gay, has 125K followers, and is also a fashion model, personal trainer, writer, and self-described “influencer.” I scrolled through his feed of gorgeous photos, which led to binge-reading all […]Read more "You Weren’t Born To Be Basic, You Were Born To Be Bold"
Here’s a small example of a powerful phenomenon. For the past month and a half, I’ve been telling everyone that I’m moving to New York on October 15th. This was (sort of) a lie. No flights had been booked, I had a car and an entire storage unit of furniture to sell, I had no job, […]Read more "This Is How It Works: The Blueprint For Creating The Life You Want"
A little over a month ago, I posted the following status on Facebook: “Just a reminder that Facebook is not real life, it’s just a highlight reel. Just because I’m taking smiling selfies in new countries everyday doesn’t mean I’m not also living in a total state of anxiety about the uncertain future. The best […]Read more "The Facebook Facade"
In two weeks I’ll be leaving the safety and comfort of my family home and moving to New York City. I currently have no place no live, no job lined up, and only a handful of acquaintances there. But I’m really not worried. One of my favorite quotes is “jump and the net will appear.” […]Read more "Jump And The Net Will Appear"